"Do you know the sex of your child?"

No. We haven't learned it yet, and we'd like to wait until the birth to learn the sex.

But just because we haven't found out doesn't mean that we don't have preferences. I would like a boy. Smileycue would like a girl. This makes sense: I have a younger brother, Smileycue has a younger sister. I understand boys, she understands girls.

Recently, we stayed with friends, Jack and Errett. Jack has a knack for knowing the gender of unborn children. Jack asked a few questions and decided we will have a boy.

We'll try and be better about using gender-inclusive language on this blog when referring to Babycue. For now, know that we don't know.